Photo: Sandra Warnier
Cheerful, open minded and easy to deal with. That’s Rachida. A happy smile often appears on her face as she talks. She has a passion for reading, cooking and, of course, for her son Chakir. “I think it’s important to set a good example for him. To teach him how valuable it is to do something good for someone else. He will follow my example when he grows up!”
“For many people whom I am mentoring, it is difficult to start speaking Dutch at first, as they often don’t dare to speak a foreign language. They feel insecure and isolated in their everyday life. For example, there is this Turkish lady, who at first dared not to say a word. I was literally pulling the words out of her mouth. But now, a few months later, she seems to be blossoming! She has overcome her fear of speaking a foreign language, partly because of our mentoring sessions. She can’t speak Dutch perfectly, but she can speak Dutch!! I can understand everything she is saying. “That’s so wonderful and rewarding.” Rachida says proudly.
Never judge other people
“I supervise nine people, all of whom I meet once a week, one-to-one. And then we talk about the events in recent weeks, about their holiday plans and their family. Sometimes we do a simple role-play, to stimulate practicing phrases used in everyday situations. For example, we create a situation where they must call the doctor’s surgery and act out a dialogue. O, we read from a children’s book together.”
Meeting all these different people from different cultures is absolutely great! I bond with each of my mentees. After a while, they tell me personal things about themselves. Behind every person, lies a special story. I have also learned to have even more respect for people in general. Not to judge immediately. Because so often we don’t know what’s beneath the surface. ”
Rachida has previously worked with children with learning disabilities. Due to circumstances, she became unemployed in 2006. “Sitting at home for a long time without having a job was hard for me, every day was the same. Whereas I like to be active, want to make myself useful, interact with people. That’s why I’m very happy to have found this volunteering opportunity.”
“Before I started, I ‘d had a six-day basic training. The topics discussed included: How do you create a pleasant, safe atmosphere in a conversation? How do you deal with someone with a negative attitude? What do you do when someone comes to you with a problem? Useful themes, with plenty of helpful advice. As a result, I have gained additional knowledge and skills to work confidently as a language mentor.”
“To talk to someone every week for an hour and a half, is only a small effort for me, but for them it’s often something very big and very important. They practice their Dutch, learn things about their new country, overcome their fears and build self-esteem. “It’s really because of you, Rachida; you are so sweet and so patient,” a woman said to me the other day, as she thrust a box of Lithuanian chocolate in my hands. Of course, I do not expect any gifts, but I just want to help people improve their Dutch in a relaxed and friendly way and empower them. And that makes me so happy!”
Would you like to become a language mentor?
For Dutch speakers, language coaching is an opportunity to get acquainted with other cultures. An informal talk at the kitchen table, while cooking or on the way to a museum or to the market. How and when you want to do is, is entirely up to you and your mentee to agree upon. Find an organization that suits you and sign up.
Need a language mentor?
Would you like to speak Dutch better? A language mentor can help you improve your language skills. You will meet for a few hours a week. You will speak Dutch together, so that you can put into practice what you have learned in a language course. Find an organization that suits you and sign up.
10 November 2020